your first step to building the new earth
November 15, 2026 - May 16, 2027
Unprecedented Times
The Earth is remembering. The Divine Feminine is remembering. We are in a threshold moment that reality has not experienced before, where as a collective, we are waking up faster than ever to the atrocities that have happened due to patriarchy, colonialism, capitalism, ownership, control, and extraction.
We are remembering what it means to have radical self-ownership, autonomy, and freedom. To not outsource our safety or give our power away to anyone or anything outside of ourselves.
We are remembering – and we can never go back. We can only move forward, into a world that centers the vulnerable and does not rely upon extraction and control in order to function.
Things are changing more rapidly than ever, and understandably for many of us, there is fear around what is happening and what lies ahead... but fear can only control you if you give your power to it.
Things will get better – but only for the people who are willing to take the leap into the unknown. To venture into the cave of your own shadows, to dance with the darkness, and to cultivate enough safety around your ability to meet the moment.
The Earth is waking up. Are you?
The Vision
We are in a unique time in history- both technology and consciousness are expanding at an exponential rate. If we can find a way to harness both in collaboration rather than opposition, they will spiral around each other like a double helix, the DNA of a new kind of human, a new kind of Earth. We are connected to each other globally in a way that we could not have even imagined 50 years ago; true existential collaboration is possible if we can break open the barriers of fear and scarcity that are currently the framework of global society.
As more humans wake up, we are collectively envisioning moving to a plot of land with our friends to grow our own food and raise our kids and animals together. This is a beautiful dream and vision! We all want to escape this need to work our life away just to survive and live with the support of a tribe that feels like family.
The reason most of these communities today end up becoming toxic, codependent, and culty, is because they are built by people who are reenacting trauma patterns created from the old system. Good intentions, built on unconscious fears and projections; it’s no wonder they so often implode.
What we are suggesting is an inside-out approach. Before we can co-create in community, we must first go inside ourselves to find our unconscious patterning and create a foundation of internalized safety.
By addressing our safety at the root (each of our individual nervous systems), we can create healthier interpersonal dynamics and eventually, co-create an entirely new way of organizing society as a whole.
The models that we build from that place will be ones that the world has never seen before.
Patriarchy Purge 101 is the foundational curriculum to create the safety within yourself that everything else will be built off of.
Every human committed to conscious evolution must walk this path
No matter your gender, race, ethnicity, upbringing, or trauma; if you feel called to build a better world, that path starts from within.
No one can do it for you, and you can’t do it for anyone else.
The path to a better world is crafted meticulously, cell by cell, within your own vessel. It’s an inside-out approach. None of us are above it. We cannot bypass the essential foundational work required in order to be safe for ourselves, and therefore, become safe for those around us.
If we want to live differently, we must BECOME different.
We must embody a shape that is truer, more authentic, fully expressed, and safe to inhabit.
Have you felt this call for a long time? Has this message already whispered to you or appeared in dreams? If you have been feeling this shift inside yourself- perhaps no longer finding yourself able to fit at a job that is clearly harvesting your life-force, a relationship that feels transactional, a friend-group that is surface-level... you are well on your way to preparing for this shift. Don’t panic! Your soul chose this!
We created this program to support anyone who knows deep down that the shift is happening and wants to be on the forefront of what is coming through. Because the truth is, there is no escaping it. It is happening, and the only way out is through. You don’t need us or this program because it will happen to everyone, eventually.
But we are here to offer tools for your nervous system to handle the uncertainty, skills to gain confidence in a shifting landscape, and support for the necessary strain of these trying and uncertain times. Just because you have to do the work yourself, doesn’t mean you have it alone!
Program Overview
Patriarchy Purge 101 is a 6-month inside-out process for making the unconscious conscious.
From November 15, 2026 - May 15, 2027, we will undergo the process of identifying and transforming the patterns we have inherited, learned, and embodied from systems of domination, scarcity, disconnection, and control.
The purpose is not to eliminate parts of ourselves. It is to encounter them, understand them, integrate them, and reclaim the choice that lives underneath the pattern. We go into the places where our conditioning lives, so that we can become increasingly safe, sovereign, and available for authentic relationships.
The inside changes the outside. As within, so without.
The work is a spiral, moving through three conscious domains: Mind, Body, and Spirit, with three corresponding pattern fields: Electrical, Crystalline, and Energetic. We utilize these domains as we spiral through 7 Pattern nodes, which are concentrated access points that become portals into a particular family of patterns. The nodes are where the work is done.
THE THREE CONSCIOUS DOMAINS
These describe the aspects of ourselves where we are cultivating conscious awareness.
MIND
Mind is what we can consciously perceive, name, examine, and understand.
Including thoughts, beliefs, stories, narratives, assumptions, worldviews, mental models, and the stories we tell about ourselves. We cannot transform a pattern we cannot see. The work of the Mind is awareness.
BODY
The body is how our inner world becomes physical experience and behavior. The realm of sensation, emotion, expression, behavior, boundaries, action, and embodiment. It holds the ways we respond to the physical world. The body is how our awareness manifests in our physical reality. The work of the Body is empowered choice.
Spirit
Spirit is our conscious relationship with that which is larger than the individual self. The realm of meaning, intuition, purpose, mystery, reverence, creativity, and connection to something greater than ourselves. The work of Spirit is connection, belonging, and relationships- to ourselves, to each other, to the Earth, and the mystery beyond.
THE THREE PATTERN FIELDS
Underneath those conscious domains are deeper layers where patterns may operate before they become conscious thought, choice, or deliberate behavior.
electrical
The Electrical field is the body's patterning of signal, response, and protection. The pattern field of the nervous system: neural pathways, learned responses, automatic reactions, activation and regulation, and conditioned responses. We must create safety in the subconscious wiring of our being in order to acknowledge and alchemize our conditioning.
crystalline
The crystalline field is the matrix through which experiences can become patterned, held, and expressed in the physical body. This pattern field includes the connective tissue and fascial system, but also the broader phenomenon of embodied memory and physical patterning: somatic memories, postural patterns, breath patterns, areas of contraction, and movement restrictions.
energetic
The Energetic field is the domain of information we perceive without consciously reasoning our way to it. This is the pattern field of intuition, felt sense, environmental sensitivity, subtle perception, resonance, and relational sensing. Intuition is information. It requires discernment.
THE PATTERN NODES
Pattern Nodes are concentrated places where psychological, somatic, relational, and energetic patterns become particularly accessible for awareness and transformation.
1. mind
The Mind is the entry point, the Node of Awareness where we learn to recognize conditioning, beliefs, and inherited narratives. The Mind gives us enough awareness to stop confusing conditioning with identity.
2. THROAT
The Throat is where internal awareness becomes expression, the Node of Truth where we encounter: unspoken needs, unexpressed boundaries and expectations, and repressed anger, frustration, and resentment. The Throat is the bridge between awareness and authentic expression
3. LUNGS
The Lungs are the Node of Grief and Release. Breath gives us a particularly tangible doorway into the relationship between the nervous system, emotion, and body. Here we will unlock latent grief, sadness, and longing, as well as patterns around receiving, releasing, and allowing
4. LIVER
The Liver is the Node of Anger and Power, the territory of: rage, frustration, boundaries, power, agency, and action. Rather than treating anger as something to eliminate, the work becomes: What is my anger trying to tell me? Can I reclaim my power without becoming destructive?
5. HIPS
The Hips are the Node of Embodied History, and represent a deeper descent into embodied patterning. This is where the work can explore: trauma, attachment, protection mechanisms, instinct, and sexual patterning.
6. WOMB
The Womb is the Node of Safety and Creativity, a symbolic center of generativity that applies across genders: desire, creative expression, sensuality, sexuality, vulnerability, rebirth, and security. The work here creates sovereignty and empowered capability.
7. HEART
The Heart is the Node of Integration, where individual sovereignty and relational connection stop being opposites. The Heart holds: love, courage, discernment, connection, compassion, availability, and integrity. The Heart teaches us how to remain connected to ourselves, while remaining open and connected to the world.
The Three Phases of Patriarchy Purge 101
Phase I — “Building the Chrysalis" Inquiry & Inventory
Weeks 1–8 · Mind + Throat
We develop awareness, regulation, resources, and capacity. We examine the inherited world we've been shaped by and begin to recognize the difference between our unconscious adaptations and our conscious choices. We expand our inventory and meet ourselves at the pace of our nervous system.
Phase II — “Excavation and Dissolution”
Weeks 9–16 · Lungs + Liver + Hips
With greater resources, we investigate deeper emotional, somatic, and relational patterns. We explore grief, anger, protection, and embodied history, creating opportunities to understand what shaped us and develop new understanding, release, and conscious repatterning.
—> optional in-person retreat to deepen the work of Phase II
Phase III — Emergence and Integration
Weeks 17–24 · Womb + Heart
We bring previously divided parts of ourselves into greater relationship. We cultivate creative sovereignty, inner union, and relational integrity, then practice translating these capacities into the choices and relationships of everyday life.
How this program is different
Most programs have an outside-in approach, or are based around hierarchy, capitalism, or pedestalizations.
We are committed to an inside-out approach that is matriarchal, non-heirarchical, and inherently accessible.
This is our inaugural version of the Patriarchy Purge 101 program. Our goal with this program is to continue incorporating more practitioners into the curriculum over time, to ensure this program is robust and comprehensive.
By joining the first cohort, you’ll have lifetime access to all updates and additions that are made to this program.
Joining Patriarchy Purge 101 also qualifies you to join our retreats and our Patriarchy Purge 201 (which will go into the second tier of this work, centered around relational capacity and community living) which will launch in 2027.
This is the foundational pre-requisite for all other programs, to ensure we all have shared skills, tools, and language as we move forward together.
RETREATS
We will be hosting a 5-day retreat in the US for 12 Patriarchy Purge participants to attend over the Spring Equinox.
This retreat will be a separate cost for those interested, but will only be available for those who have enrolled in the Patriarchy Purge program, and will not be open to the general public.
During this retreat, we will be going deeper into the work we’re doing for Patriarchy Purge 101, with in-person facilitation to create the safety and containment for you to go into the deeper layers of self. It will be an opportunity for somatic anchoring, ritual, ceremony, play, and deepening within the community.
Detailed information and applications for the retreat will be available in December for program participants.
What’s included
2x live monthly calls
Trusted guest teachers
Somatic resource library
Deconditioning The Patriarchal Body Curriculum
Downloadable meditations and worksheets
Private community group of Earth Doulas who are doing the work just like you (this could become your real life community that you build the New Earth with!)
INVESTMENT
One time payment of
$629
OR
Six monthly payments of
$112
Stewards of the space
We believe in stewardship over ownership – meaning that this council will grow and more stewards, practitioners, and collaborators will join us on this journey. But for our Founding Cohort, Brittany and Ellee will be the primary stewards of this container.
Brittany Loeser is an Embodiment Coach, Ceremonialist, and guide for those who are ready to liberate themselves from the shackles of societal expectations & patriarchal conditioning, so they can unearth their true desires and become unapologetically authentic.
She has trained in Applied Neurology, Nervous System Training, Somatics, and is a certified NeuroSomatic Practitioner. She has also undergone long-term training and mentorship from her Medicine Teacher where she learned to hold ceremonial spaces and work closely with energy medicine, embodiment, and plant medicine.
Her area of focus is in boundaries work and rage alchemy, helping others fully integrate their inner masculine and feminine energies to embody the entire range of their power.
Ellee Best is a visionary, teacher, ritual alchemist, artist, musician, and a longtime space-holder for healing. She is a certified herbalist, permaculture designer, and intuitive energy healer.
She has worked as both a birth and death doula, and now considers herself an “earth doula,” which is phonetically a combination of the two- both are transitions between one plane and the next, which she believes is the liminal space we are in as a collective right now.
She handcrafts tools for remembering that help people access their intuition and mark life’s thresholds with intention. Greater than the sum of its parts, each piece combines to slow you down, tune you in, and restore a living relationship with your inner guidance.
Our Journey With Matriarchal Living
When we, Brittany and Ellee, met on a retreat in October 2023, neither of us could have imagined what we were walking into.
We were both still married, both standing at the edge of lives that were already unraveling. We were waking up to parts of ourselves we had spent years suppressing, questioning the structures we'd built our lives around, and beginning to recognize that we couldn't keep living with one foot in the old world and one foot in the new.
We didn't have a roadmap. We just knew something was calling us forward, and following it meant letting a lot of what we knew die.
What began as a shared experience of spiritual awakening became something much deeper: a lifeline. We found ourselves in a space where we could be honest about what was happening, be witnessed through the messy parts, and navigate enormous life changes alongside people who actually understood. We watched our old identities, relationships, and beliefs come apart, and slowly began discovering what was underneath them.
Eventually, we made the decision to live together.
What we've built since then is something neither of us had a model for. We're not romantic partners. We're not just roommates. We're two women co-creating a life rooted in mutual care, radical self-ownership, and stewardship over ownership.
We share resources. We make room for each other's changing circumstances. We practice trusting each other without needing to control every outcome. When one of us needs more support, the other has room to offer it. When things get messy, we work through them together.
We haven't magically transcended our conditioning. We've had conflict. We've been triggered (a lot, actually – hello, mirrors). We've hit the same old patterns we thought we'd already worked through. We've had to face the uncomfortable places where fear, scarcity, control, and old relational wounds still live. And continue to face these patterns as our evolution is never over!
But we've learned that rupture doesn't have to mean failure, discomfort doesn't have to mean danger, and conflict doesn't have to end in disconnection.
The more we've done the work to create safety within ourselves, the more capacity we've developed to stay present with each other. To get curious instead of making assumptions. To take ownership of our own patterns without taking responsibility for someone else's. To repair, rebuild trust, and keep choosing a different way.
This is what matriarchal living looks like for us.
We have been living and walking out this program together, and realized that this is the way we flip the board collectively from a system based on scarcity, fear, coercion, and extraction to one of reciprocal trust and care. Where resources are stewarded rather than hoarded.
We couldn't keep talking about new systems of care, community, and collective liberation while ignoring the ways the old systems were still operating inside us. We couldn't build something fundamentally different using the same patterns of domination, scarcity, avoidance, and control.
The work had to start within.
That's what gave birth to Patriarchy Purge 101.
We created this program because we know what it takes to walk into the dark places within ourselves, meet the patterns we've inherited and embodied, and begin making different choices. We know the value of having tools, shared language, and people who can mirror us with honesty and care while we do that work.
We're not here because we've figured it all out. There's no finish line, no pedestal, and no version of ourselves that will never be triggered again. We're here because we've lived through enough of this process to understand its power, and we've built enough trust in ourselves and each other to help others navigate it, too.
We believe the future we're dreaming of is possible. But we can't build it from the same internal operating system that created the world we're trying to change.
Patriarchy Purge 101 is an invitation to begin that inside-out work with us. To develop the awareness, embodied capacity, and discernment to meet yourself honestly, take responsibility for your own patterns, and become more available for the kinds of relationships and communities we all say we want.
Because a new world isn't something we can simply imagine into existence.
It's something we practice. In our bodies. In our homes. In our relationships. In the way we care for ourselves, each other, and the Earth.
Do you want to build with us?
FAQs
-
Enrollment is open November 5 - 14, 2026.
The program begins November 15, 2026 and runs through May 15, 2027 (6 months).
-
Live calls will be held on 2 Sundays per month from 2-3:30pm Central Time.
Call Dates: Nov 15, Nov 29, Dec 13, Dec 27, Jan 10, Jan 24, Feb 7, Feb 21, March 7, SPRING BREAK (retreat week, no call), April 4, April 18, May 2, May 16
-
All calls will be recorded and added to the hosting platform where you will maintain lifetime access.
-
The Founding Cohort will receive lifetime access to all materials not only in this cohort, but updates and materials in all future iterations as well.
-
This program is open to anyone who feels called to do the work, regardless of gender. The “womb” node is applicable to all – whether you have a womb or not, you came from one.
-
Yes.
Unlike almost every other program out there, if you complete the 6 month program and can show that you have put the effort in to complete the curriculum, do the work, and attend the calls, but do not feel that it was a worthwhile investment for your conscious evolution, we will provide a refund.
-
We have to walk the line between where we know we are going, and where we are today as a society. Unfortunately, capitalism still exists and therefore, existence costs money. We’ve done everything in our power to make this as accessible as possible, while still being able to gather resources to sustain ourselves in the current structures as we move to the new ones.
In addition to that, the reality is that most people need some skin in the game in order to actually show up for a commitment like this. Don’t worry – where we’re going, we will function under a very different operating system. We just have to bridge the gap to get there first.
-
We offer a 6-month payment plan option for $112/month on the checkout page.
If you’re experiencing financial hardship, you can email us at info@doulasofanewearth.com to apply for one of our limited, discounted tuition scholarships.
-
AI is, understandably, a nuanced and charged topic, but it’s an important conversation that we’re not shying away from or lying about. We don’t have space here for all of the nuance, so here’s the short answer:
All of the curriculum, artwork, and writing for this program was created by humans. We do not use AI to generate any of the ideas or concepts we’re talking about, or to put together a de-humanized, watered down version of anything we’re presenting.
However, we are only two humans ushering in a big vision. We have utilized AI at various points throughout our process to help synthesize our visions, frameworks, and ideology in a way that people can digest and understand. Once we have the information we needed from synthesizing, we go back to manually moving things forward from there.
Participation Agreement
Patriarchy Purge is a space rooted in reciprocity, accountability, and the active dismantling of patriarchal conditioning. All participants are expected to honor the integrity of this container by practicing self-awareness, decentering themselves when appropriate, and taking responsibility for the impact of their words and actions.
Men entering this space must understand that showing up is not an achievement deserving praise, but an invitation to do deeper work: listening without needing to lead, witnessing without needing to intervene, and making room for voices and experiences that have historically been marginalized. We will offer honest reflection when behavior is misaligned with our values, and we expect all participants to receive that reflection with humility and a willingness to grow. We are here to protect this space, not to do anyone else's work for them.
If you’ve been feeling the call towards a more authentic way of living and relating, then you know that the time is now.
The world is radically shifting and the old structures of control and extraction can no longer sustain themselves.
If we want to move into matriarchy, we must do the work to extract the patriarchal conditioning from within ourselves so that we can create a new world built on a strong foundation.
Nobody can do it for you, and you can’t do it for anyone else.
So you have to decide…